Preface: In morning I saw an article "Ungrateful People" by Media Crooks. I am great fan of Media Crooks @MediaCrooks way of writing & his fearless war against actual Media Crooks. So read the article with sincerity. The article sent me to memory lane. To know "How" Read below:-
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You may be wondering what is this "Grateless"? Should it not be "Ungrateful"? Yes if you write in Queen's English it should have been written as Are We "Ungrateful" Nation? But then you know how emotions work in language. They don't follow traditional path of grammar & correct words/phrases. This emotion has invented many words which are some time called as "slang". This word "grateless" too was invented by my senior officer Late Sh. GBS Saini.
'Grateless? Sir, I am sorry but perhaps you miss-pronounced it. It should have been as ungrateful..I think' I said taking liberty of my closeness with him & at the same time it was an opportunity to show my better English.
Sainiji's eyes were staring me but he seems to be lost in deep thoughts. After a pause he said
'No, Pradeep! It is has to be grateless. This new word has just struck to me now. Ungrateful is very small, humble & civilized word in compression to Grateless, if my emotions are taken into account'
He signaled me to sit down & order tea. While waiting for tea to served, he started talking.
'We, the Indian people, never hesitate to ask smallest favor from anybody. But after taking favor, we avoid that person as we never want to return favor. Not only this, saying thanks seems too much for us because we never say thanks from bottom of our heart. If we say thanks, we say just to show our greatness & how civilized we are. Unless you say thanks from bottom of your heart, it is just a word which carries no meaning. This gentleman, whose phone you got restored, went not only out of way, but in most illegal way to help Delhi Telephones (Then it was DOT not MTNL as it is known now). Had he been caught by some vested interests, he would have been dismissed from service. But see, what we have gave him in return. He ran from lineman to Divisional Engineer to get his phone restored for more than 10 days. We just rebuked him.' Sainiji seemd to be getting emotional & continuing monologue.
'Do you know meaning of To Grate? To Grate means "Harsh grinding or rasping through friction or reduced to powder by friction" & Grateless means a thing which can't be grated or grinded or powered by any means.'
'Why I am telling this? You know many persons lost their life, hanged, killed & jailed during Independence movement. Bhagat Singh along with his friends were hanged at very young age. Azad was killed, Gandhiji, Nehruji & many more spent their life's best period in jail. Numerous other nameless, faceless persons either languished in jail or simply killed during that period. What for? To give us this stupid freedom. Pradeep! We don't deserve to be free rather we should have been subjected to more harsher jungle rule. You may be astonished listening my words thinking old man has gone nuts. No I am not.'
'Do you know why these persons were killed, hanged & jailed by English ruler? No, they were not subjected to this cruelty for asking freedom. You know English people are very law abiding people. They would never do any thing which is contrary to law of the land. Asking freedom is not against any law. So then why this punishment? You see each & every Indian was punished by court of law. Under what section? The IPC section was applied on them was "Treason & war against King/Nation". Seeing their quantum of offence, they were sentenced to different degree of punishment right from hanging to many years in jail. English people did what their law of Indian land said.'
'These laws still exist in Indian Penal Court. So according to these laws, these great patriots are still criminals in the eyes of even current laws. What we have done in this case? Leave leaders sitting at high positions, what we, the Indian people, have done in this regard. You may be listening many PIL are being filed to high light excess against Human Rights by so called Human Right groups. Has anyone ever thought to file a PIL to exonerate our freedom fighters for their acts during freedom movement? No. Non did it.'
'People say Nehruji never wanted to bring back Subhash Cand Bose to his own position. No, it is wrong. Nehru could not bring him back fearing Bose, if alive & his where about is known to world, may be tried as criminal for fighting against British.'
I tried to rebut him over PIL issue but he did not allowed me to speak. Perhaps he was not speaking me but to himself.
'Ok, I know you don't agree with me over PIL issue as the cases are very much old but tell me what we gave in return to our heroes? We criticize them over minor, personal & trivial issues. We have right to differ & protest when things are not turning good either to an individual or society or to nation as well. But is it right to humiliate our heroes over very minor matter?' I wondered what was to come next.
'Do you know how we respect our these many great heroes? On their Birthday etc, we write few lines, lecture here & there and forget them for rest 364 days. No..No we don't forget rest days of the year. We tried to find faults in what they did & said. Ok it is good to find faults so that they are not repeated by others. But what is this? We talk with meaningful smile about them.'
'They talk like this. Hey! You know, he used to sleep with such & such or the other fellow was having affairs with white lady. Arre, these right-wingers who took arms during independence movement were actually misguided young fellows. All trivial things. This is sign of being ungrateful or put in my words gratelessness.'
'Tell me, why it took many years to hang murderers of Indira Gandhi? Why murderers of Rajiv Gandhi are still free? Are these cases are not open & shut type? It is because of slow court processes but more due to those people who want to get fame & money on the cost of society & nation. When some terrorist come & attack them these very people hide in laps of the girl friends with their tails under both legs. When danger passes away, they come out with banners in their hand demanding individual rights of these criminals. What is more important, Nation or Individual rights?''You know, very recently Punjab was burning. Kudos! It is KPS Gill & his party who took the bull by horn. I admire them & as well as political leadership, though very corrupt, for granting them what they wanted. I know Gill & Party were engaged in many illegal encounters. But I say their encounters were not illegal because a war was wedged against nation by terrorist in Punjab. Every thing is fair in love & war. If they took criminals to the courts, they could have never been tried due to lack of witness. What if courts set them free? They would have come back with more force with moral victory.'
'But as we are grateless nation, our own people are calling KPS Gill by name & putting all type of allegations against him & his warriors. There is spurt of Human Right Activist in Punjab. They are filling many cases against policemen there. I ask where these Son of... were when Punjab was burning. I admit many innocent might have died. But you know "Gehun ke saath ghun bhi pista hai".'
' If government don't rein these activists in time, they will force many officers to commit suicide or force them to pass their prime time behind bars or few many be hanged too.' (His prophecy came true when AS Sandhu, SP Tarn-Taran took his life in 1997. Not only he but many officers were humiliated & lost their job)
Saini Saheb fell into silence looking at fan at the ceiling. Tea was getting cold. I coughed. He saw straight into my eyes & said
'Son! if you want to be good human being, learn to pay gratitude. Pay gratitude from bottom of your heart. Even if you don't say a word but feel gratitude by heart, you are changed the very moment & changed forever. Try to return favor. I know many favor can't be returned, in that case PAY IT FORWARD'
My heart reciprocated with sincerity of his words. I just nodded & came out of his chamber without taking his permission.
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End: I fully agree with Mr. Ravinaar@MediaCrooks for his thought provoking article. We must think what we are doing. Are we hanging our heroes & supporting these crooks?
Think again "Are We Grateless Nation? If yes, try to change it. Even a single step, taken in right direction, can change Nation.



